Items : 1 white candle and one in your favorite color - Two holders
- Rose colored alter cloth
A Piece of red chalk.
Ritual : In the circle, ground and center. Meditate on all preconceived
ideas you have about the
perfect partner. You might have a certain person in mind for romance. Release
the thought
of that person (it would be most unethical to work magick to make a certain
person love
you and will put you in jeopardy by the law of return). Release all notions
of what your
perfect lover will look like, or do for a career, or even sound like.
These are externals,
and if you cling to them you may overlook mate simple because your mind
was focoused
on superficialities.
When
your mind is clear and open, hold the candle of your favorite color; this
represents
you. Meditate and then speak aloud all the qualities and energies you are
willing to bring to
an intimate relationship, such as "honesty, and the daily expression of
affection, and good
humor even in difficult times, ect.... Replace that candle on the alter
and pick up the white
one. This represents your ideal partner, whoever he or she may be. Speak
aloud the
essential qualities you desire in a mate , and ask Aphrodite to bring
you together in this
lifetime.
Then
place the two candles in their holders at oppisite ends of the alter. Draw
a heart in the
center with the red chalk, large enough for both candle holders. each day
thereafter,
meditate on the perfect loving relationship for a few minutes, and move
the two candles an
inch closer together. if you started on a new moon, then by the full
moon, the candles
should be touching in the middle of the heart. When they meet, draw
two more hearts
around the first one, raise energy by singing your favorite love song,
(or singing with a
recording of it) and charge the candles. So mote it be! |